Why make a family/whānau history
A birth family/whānau history assists:
- te tamaiti – to know important information about their birth family/whānau, hapū and iwi and whakapapa for tamariki Māori
- adoptive applicants – to make an informed decision about a specific adoption proposal
- adoptive parents – to understand more about their adopted tamaiti; to encourage contact and support the kinship network with the birth family/whānau; to have a genetic, health and developmental history of the birth family/whanau.
Expectant parents may be there to tell their part of the adoption story as te tamaiti grows, but if they aren't, the family/whānau history will be available on the adoption file.
Gathering information for a family/whānau history
Help expectant parents to gather information about themselves by encouraging them to:
- write their own story, recognising that not everyone feels comfortable writing and talking about themselves – if they need help, try to sensitively draw out information and remind them of their strengths and abilities
- include their family/whānau in the process – their parents will know about the expectant parents' own early development and family health history. Ensure where possible 3 generations of maternal and paternal family names are identified and recorded.
- provide photos of themselves and family/whānau – both current and from childhood if possible
- explore and record with whānau the significant people, places and cultural values that strengthen the connection of tamariki to their whakapapa – including marae, hapū and iwi information. Where appropriate, consult with a kairaranga ā-whānau or similar specialist Māori role to support engagement with whānau and verification of whakapapa genealogy
- where the expected tamaiti will have other cultural heritage, consider how other cultural consultation could enhance the gathering of culturally-specific information
- be truthful and positive about their own lives.
Draw up a draft of their family/whānau history and develop it through further discussion. Creating a genogram as a supporting document/information to go with the family/whānau history is a good idea. Social workers should confirm and record the whakapapa genealogy of up to 3 generations of the birth maternal and paternal family/whanau.
Complying with the Privacy Act
When gathering information, we must comply with obligations under the Privacy Act, explaining why the information is needed and what it will be used for.
Collect personal information directly from the person concerned. If the father isn't available and the expectant mother knows some genetic and health information about the father, she may provide this – note in the document that she has provided the information. Expectant parents may sign the document, but it's not required.
When an adoption plan does not proceed, ensure that birth family/whānau information is returned and that the confidentiality of the information is maintained.
It is vital that we explore and record how parties involved agree to be located and approached in the future should Oranga Tamariki receive such a request from either party. This can be recorded on the family history document.